Sponsors in Kenya
“My interest in older men began to wane when my friend and I went out on our friends party at night in a club and after the party we were in Dubai, just like I mean we” well groomed” to attract any creature” these are words from a teenage girl who is a student in one of the universities in Kenya. It is very unfortunate that we are living in a world where men prefer young girls because they are innocent, naïve and vulnerable. Personally, from a very young age, I was pursued by older men who were old enough to be my dad and some my grandfather.[autoad]
My P.E teacher at school tried it on me when I was as young as 11 years. I enjoyed the attention and gifts but now, retrospectively, I know that it was just a form of sexual exploitation. Up to now I know men who are over 50 years and they are still trying to pursue young teenagers just for sexual satisfaction. It is very sad when young girls sleep with older just for a thousand Kenyan shilling, what a rotten world we are living in. But the question is, what is the cause of all this?
“Two weeks after I started dating my old man, we had sex, I wouldn’t say he pressured me, it had been my idea at the time. But, I will say that he definitely didn’t protest. Things had been moving quickly and although when I had first started dating him sex hadn’t been on his mind but on our second date he asked me if I would go down on him in the back seat of his car, after grabbing my handbag and asking whether I wanted to leave the jazz performance we were attending earlier. We had sex inside his car and after that I was given a Cheque of a hundred thousand. This was like the whole world to me. I felt very guilty and unworthy. It felt it was very illegal. [autoad]
I wondered intently why someone with so much sexual experience would want to have sex with a fifteen year old who had absolutely none. At this point I wanted to quit the relationship because of the unhealthy feelings I had. My conscious was not clear. I knew if I quit he will definitely kill considering all the money he had invested in me. I managed to get out through the help of the police. To the young, girls who are dating older men, ask yourself is money worth your respect and body? With all the equally smart, capable, and mature grown women out there in the world, what does this adult find in me? it maybe just be that you have what no grown woman out there has- the ability to compromise your boundaries and put your trust into someone who does not have your best interests at heart.”